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>>510845 No.529534
>>529530> And cant prop it up with anything, that is way too much attention to draw to myself while embarassing myself in publicwell first of all nobody cares actually (this is just deluded protagonist syndrome), second you want to feel comfortable exposing yourself anyway to talk with strangers so think of it as growing a thicker skin. third, i use a flip phone and i can prop the selfie camera wherever, it's awesome, consider getting one. i actually hired a professional photographer to fill my tinder profile. the pictures turned out to be total dogshit and ended up ditching them all, but posing in public places for some random dude with a camera just kinda made me a bit less awkward in public so the experience wasn't a total waste.
No.529548
>>529534I dont mean prop it up upright, but in height.
No.529559
>>529548bring like a thick book i recommend das kapital
No.529566
Ok, lets take a step back, can a standard lefty imageboard poster, with all the traits you would associate with it (anxious-depressive personality, low social skills, introverted) and who spends his free time mostly consuming media, learning boring nerdy subjects and gymcelling, present himself both authentically and at least somehow desirably?
No.529582
>>529566Kinda, if you have a job and a place to yourself and so on. If you're middle class you can come off as 'bookish' and 'intellectual' rather than just a loser.
No.529592
>>529582I have a shit dead-end job and live with roommates in a shitty old apartment. I understand thats negative, but surely there must be women in similar situation who dont mind.
Honestly I am probably just delusional, womens desirability doesnt depend on those things much, woman like me would ironically be out of my league.
No.529594
>>529566Depends on the length of your ramus
No.529601
>>529594I am not ugly if thats what you mean. Decent looking actually, well groomed, fit (not enough to advertise myself through shirtless selfies, but still), nicely dressed, I dont think I am boring, I can carry a conversation if the topic is something I find interesting, adventurous in a sense that I seek new experiences, being something of a shut-in is mostly enforced through loneliness, not having people to do things with.
No.529607
>>529592I mean nothing is impossible, I would encourage you to try anyways.
No.529672
>>529639I have tried hiding behind the guise of a joke, so yes. If you want to know how succesful I was, well, I'm still here…
No.529686
>>529672Trying to hide behind a joke is an awful strategy, no winning scenario, she either interprets it as merely a joke, and thus no escalation takes place, or she correctly understands you are trying to hide behind joking, in which case she gets icked out by your spinelessness.
No.529688
>>529639I don't message women.
No.529822
>>529566The thing about being "authentic" is that it's about being authentically good, which
>anxious-depressive personality, low social skills, introvertedisn't.
Being introverted is not a negative trait tho.
No.529853
>>529822>Being introverted is not a negative trait tho.If social clout and consequently social competence are desirable, then trait which makes you more easily overwhelmed and shut down in social situation is negative. Obviously not all women and all, but I think its fair to say most prefer a social butterfly partner.
No.529882
Has anyone ever tried Hinge before? A few of my friends have had success with it after grinding with it for some time, so it seems useful. All after leaving fairly long-term relationships. It's been interesting watching them progress in life while I've effectively gotten nowhere. I am hesitant to start ""dating"" as I do not want to confirm the fact that I am unlovable and undesirable; that no woman would ever look at me in the eyes deeply and sincerely, and crane their neck gently so as to get closer to my face, and feel the magnetism drawing us closer and closer.
>>525896I feel you on the getting old part, stuck in an anxious shock and watching time slip by. The rest is very well written, forgive me for thinking as much but I'm hopeful that one day someone will enter into your life that you can write for.
>>527200dbdr is such a tragic and interesting figure - a 23-year-old latent alcoholic incel, a victim of sexual assault, burdened by terrible parents, whose closest experience of intimacy was with a latina stripper (who he has fallen for), and, a part time rapper.
No.529889
Putting effort into my looks is so fucking depressing. I woke up, ate healthy breakfast, went out for an uphill sprinting session, kept doing that until I was sick in the stomach, drink the mixture of protein power and creating and beta-alanine that makes me even sicker, take a shower along with an hour long grooming ritual, apply cosmetics, put on nice clothing, in addition with all the other stuff like clean my room and cook lunch, and before I know it, half of the day, basically the quarter of my total free time I get rationed for a week, is over. I have been trying my best for years, and what do I have to show for it? Nothing, sitting in my room, talking to internet strangers because there is nobody else I could even speak to. I just dont know how long can I keep this up.
No.529921
>>529889What is springing uphill supposed to do for your looks?
No.529922
>>529921Lower body workout. Too poor for the gym.
No.529944
>>524650To be fair her lower third looked asymmetrical before.
>>525249Any with assisted suicide
No.530073
just did unspeakable things to a racist 34 year old indian chick and i better get some emojis in my notifs soon or else im considering my efforts unappreciated
No.530082
>>529923Wow, Bumble worked for me extremely well because of this. Now there is no point in using this app anymore, women were already able to be selective by using the filters. This blows.
No.530083
>>529856song is so boring it has its own crickets noise
No.530263
>>528898I failed, ultimatum remains unfulfilled. Didnt take any good photos, even if I did I have nothing interesting to write in my profile, and even if I matched with someone it would become just another source of anxiety the way my current self-esteem is. Like if I we go on a date and she asks me "So what do you do?" what am I suppose to say? Nothing, I do nothing, scrape by.
At least I made list of some events I want to visit this month, I need to try living my life to the fullest on my own. Thing is, when you are alone, it isnt very enjoyable. Staying home and playing video games is lot more fun and fulfilling than awkwardly dancing alone at a concert, or stand around at a protest, or visit a conference whose contend you have nobody to talk about with.
No.530268
>>530263>I need to try living my life to the fullest on my ownThat is destructive wrecker behavior. Worst thing you can do to yourself.
You should join an org and complain all the time until they do stuff you wanna see, it's like self-criticism without the self-part. Eventually you'll get some pussy.
No.530270
>>530263try e-dating someone comparably pathetic until you can visit em in person
No.530271
>>530270That never works. Anon will likely kill himself after the 7th online breakup.
No.530272
>>5302717 online breakups means 7 online relationships, just convert one
No.530275
>>530272It's always "the one" until its not. Unless you like pretending that getting cucked by a person overseas is a relationship.
No.530276
>>530275just find someone too ugly and socially stunted to realistically cuck you then, ez.
No.530277
>>530276You're in for a surprise.
No.530278
>>530277cuck em first if you get nervous
No.530279
>>530278With your advise, anon is better off hiring a prostitute to pretend to be his girlfriend.
No.530280
>>530279don't have to pay the fbi.gov femboy shit and who knows it might actually like you
No.530283
>>530280Reading must be too difficult for you
>>530271 >>530275 No.530287
>>530283lol he'll get over it eventually
No.530288
>>530287Yes I can't wait to read about the newest self-immolation by an anarchist incel soon.
No.530291
I wanna fucking kill myself. My dad probably isn't going to live much longer and my brother is moving out to live with his "gf", so I'm eventually going to be the sole caretaker of a NEET sibling, an aging mother and a severely disabled, non verbal sibling in an extremely high cost of living area with no career. I'm almost done with my computer science degree but I personally don't feel it's going to help me. I made every mistake possible during my studies (first gen college student) and am getting old.
I genuinely no longer know what to do and literally think about going to commit die everyday. It's just too much for me, and then on top of it all I know I'm never going to meet anyone and I'll have spent my entire life living a lonely life with my broken family.
No.530293
>>530288imagine self immolating over your fbi.gov kitten leaving you, I think even our comrade here is above that enough to learn to move on. It's not like he wouldn't likely get broken up with a few times if he tried in person dating anyways. Obviously it would be more ideal for him to get laid in real life but if you're that completely isolated the practice from something more obtainable can't hurt.
No.530303
>>530291Don't give up dude.
No.530310
>>528557>Take Vitamin D and B and drink a lot of water, it'll boost your energy levels, clean your body out a bit and help with the depression somewhat.Based, nobody believes me when I say this. Simple iodine in my multivitamin has affected me a lot, I'm surprised how many are noticeable immediately: zinc, magnesium, C, b vitamins, k, and iron all make you feel dramatically better if you've been undereating to save money etc. Shifting the balance of your diet mostly protein based calories by % makes you insanely energetic compared even while depressed
No.530312
PLEASE STOP BEING SAD THIS THREAD IS SCARY
No.530313
I THINK YOU ARE ALL (PROBABLY) REALLY NICE AND BEING HARD ON YOURSELVES >:(
No.530327
>>530313Its other people who are hard on us anon.
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